Today is the last day of the first month of 2019! I'm sitting in the office, and you know I have nothing to do. Was doing nothing to kill the time. Out of the blue, it got me think of this Blogger i used to blog long time ago. it's funny looking back the old posts. It has been 7 years!!! 7 freaking year!!!time flies.

I got me wonder is there anyone still using this ???

it has been a long long while since the last post, it is funny looking back some of the old posts, it reflecting my thoughts at that time, which i dun even know that the things i wrote were so important to me. i mean i have grown so much looking back, and this is what a human supposed to be like, progression! im glad that who im today....back then i was so wanted to improve my english,  keep reading and writing blog, but now i know english is not everything...as long as i can communicate in english and u understand, thats fine. bye. im lazy to cont... haha

Steve Jobs 1955-2011

people would only pay attention to what you have said only when you are a very successful person.

Steve Jobs's 3 stories

"你們的時間有限，所以不要浪費時間活在別人的生活裡。

不要被教條所侷限-- 盲從教條就是活在別人思考結果裡。

不要讓別人的意見淹沒了你內在的心聲。

最重要的，擁有追隨自己內心與直覺的勇氣，

你的內心與直覺多少已經知道你真正想要成為什麼樣的人."

Ego

High Ego do has its good, well, better look at this perspective...if a person has high ego, he don't want to lose out in a bunch. he tends to show his best, always the strongest person in the eye of people. will always aware of how he been perceived by their friend. So he always tried to stand on the peak. he tends to has this attitude "prove em' they're wrong". they believe themselve, when u strongly believed yourself, sometimes, u have those crazy ideas that people think u are psycho, too naive,daydreaming. they think u can't make it, so show them, they are wrong. prove to them, they're the person who are too naive to think that you cant make it. one of my favorite mentor, Ernie Chan once said, the fine line between success and failure, he said when u succeed, people say you intelligent, when u failed, people say u idiot. Then he took Airasia's CEO Tony Fernandes for example, when fernandes first buying Airasia, at that time was not called Airasia, anyway, Fernandes mortgaged his home and used his saving to acquire the company, at that time, friends, family members think that he is crazy, he will not going make it, he cant go far. but what's happen now? people started saying he is intelligent,blah bla bla...you see? when people say u cant make it, and laughing at u thinking that u are too naive to think big... instead of listening to him, why dun prove them they are wrong? and u can make it happen. that's why u need to listen to yourself first, believe yourself.

anyway, I'm not trying to say u need to be so ego then to become a successful person. what i want to say is that people who has high ego, they tend to has the power, they tend to has the winning spirit. they tried hard not to lose, so they put it more efforts. they have this energy to drive them.

As I always say ''Human are a complicated creature". There are always a lot conflict, disagreement, misunderstanding and so on. At times, you tried hard to tell them please don't do that way,hope they can understand at least a bit, it is for a better of us. But do they really hear u? that's also why people always say" If something u can't change, then u have to change yourself to adapt it."

what if you don't like one of your friend's attitude, would u tell him? like " Hey, u know what, I dun like you keep insulting me by saying "sohai", "noob yau". For me, if u saying this to your friend, I'll just think that u are not respecting them as a friend. what worse is that you kept saying it. u might not meant it. but u're saying wrong thing in a right situation..

what I would like to say is" please treat your friends like how they treat u." seriously, be aware of your words. I don't like to say the words "Sohai" and "noob yau" or "noob dau se" or any other word which could convey a negative messages, ask yourself did i say sohai to u? i mean in the serious way. did i say "noob yau, like this also dunno." and this is indeed insulting and it is not sound like kidding...and that's why I hope u treat me like how i treat u.


For what? to talking with someone who keep insulting u? at the end of the day, u got hurt more than joys.

and when i say human are complicated creature is not just what i mentioned above...communication is the only way to solve this...but the problem is that do they take your words seriously and store in their head?

RESPECT EACH OTHER IS WHAT I WANNA SAY, NO MATTER WHO U ARE, TREAT YOUR MOM AND DAD, FRIENDS, STRANGERS AND COLLEAGUES WITH RESPECT.

and i always think this, even u are elder or older, u do need to respect young people.

Be Yourself mean-

Be yourself mean-

1.)Accept who u are, no matter good or bad. ( Be patient about your weaknesses, empower your strengths.)

2.) To do what u like to do, not others telling you that's what u suppose to do. ( Follow your convictions.)

3.)Don't give a damn of what they said about you. (especially saying something that against your thoughts, opinions, and attitudes...while there's nothing right or wrong about that. If things that are very subjective to every individual.)

4.)Don't be afraid of expressing your thoughts and opinions. (Believe what you believed.)

5.)...will be continue