As I always say ''Human are a complicated creature". There are always a lot conflict, disagreement, misunderstanding and so on. At times, you tried hard to tell them please don't do that way,hope they can understand at least a bit, it is for a better of us. But do they really hear u? that's also why people always say" If something u can't change, then u have to change yourself to adapt it."

what if you don't like one of your friend's attitude, would u tell him? like " Hey, u know what, I dun like you keep insulting me by saying "sohai", "noob yau". For me, if u saying this to your friend, I'll just think that u are not respecting them as a friend. what worse is that you kept saying it. u might not meant it. but u're saying wrong thing in a right situation..

what I would like to say is" please treat your friends like how they treat u." seriously, be aware of your words. I don't like to say the words "Sohai" and "noob yau" or "noob dau se" or any other word which could convey a negative messages, ask yourself did i say sohai to u? i mean in the serious way. did i say "noob yau, like this also dunno." and this is indeed insulting and it is not sound like kidding...and that's why I hope u treat me like how i treat u.


For what? to talking with someone who keep insulting u? at the end of the day, u got hurt more than joys.

and when i say human are complicated creature is not just what i mentioned above...communication is the only way to solve this...but the problem is that do they take your words seriously and store in their head?

RESPECT EACH OTHER IS WHAT I WANNA SAY, NO MATTER WHO U ARE, TREAT YOUR MOM AND DAD, FRIENDS, STRANGERS AND COLLEAGUES WITH RESPECT.

and i always think this, even u are elder or older, u do need to respect young people.

Be Yourself mean-

Be yourself mean-

1.)Accept who u are, no matter good or bad. ( Be patient about your weaknesses, empower your strengths.)

2.) To do what u like to do, not others telling you that's what u suppose to do. ( Follow your convictions.)

3.)Don't give a damn of what they said about you. (especially saying something that against your thoughts, opinions, and attitudes...while there's nothing right or wrong about that. If things that are very subjective to every individual.)

4.)Don't be afraid of expressing your thoughts and opinions. (Believe what you believed.)

5.)...will be continue