Today is the last day of the first month of 2019! I'm sitting in the office, and you know I have nothing to do. Was doing nothing to kill the time. Out of the blue, it got me think of this Blogger i used to blog long time ago. it's funny looking back the old posts. It has been 7 years!!! 7 freaking year!!!time flies.

I got me wonder is there anyone still using this ???

it has been a long long while since the last post, it is funny looking back some of the old posts, it reflecting my thoughts at that time, which i dun even know that the things i wrote were so important to me. i mean i have grown so much looking back, and this is what a human supposed to be like, progression! im glad that who im today....back then i was so wanted to improve my english,  keep reading and writing blog, but now i know english is not everything...as long as i can communicate in english and u understand, thats fine. bye. im lazy to cont... haha

Steve Jobs 1955-2011

people would only pay attention to what you have said only when you are a very successful person.

Steve Jobs's 3 stories

"你們的時間有限，所以不要浪費時間活在別人的生活裡。

不要被教條所侷限-- 盲從教條就是活在別人思考結果裡。

不要讓別人的意見淹沒了你內在的心聲。

最重要的，擁有追隨自己內心與直覺的勇氣，

你的內心與直覺多少已經知道你真正想要成為什麼樣的人."

Ego

High Ego do has its good, well, better look at this perspective...if a person has high ego, he don't want to lose out in a bunch. he tends to show his best, always the strongest person in the eye of people. will always aware of how he been perceived by their friend. So he always tried to stand on the peak. he tends to has this attitude "prove em' they're wrong". they believe themselve, when u strongly believed yourself, sometimes, u have those crazy ideas that people think u are psycho, too naive,daydreaming. they think u can't make it, so show them, they are wrong. prove to them, they're the person who are too naive to think that you cant make it. one of my favorite mentor, Ernie Chan once said, the fine line between success and failure, he said when u succeed, people say you intelligent, when u failed, people say u idiot. Then he took Airasia's CEO Tony Fernandes for example, when fernandes first buying Airasia, at that time was not called Airasia, anyway, Fernandes mortgaged his home and used his saving to acquire the company, at that time, friends, family members think that he is crazy, he will not going make it, he cant go far. but what's happen now? people started saying he is intelligent,blah bla bla...you see? when people say u cant make it, and laughing at u thinking that u are too naive to think big... instead of listening to him, why dun prove them they are wrong? and u can make it happen. that's why u need to listen to yourself first, believe yourself.

anyway, I'm not trying to say u need to be so ego then to become a successful person. what i want to say is that people who has high ego, they tend to has the power, they tend to has the winning spirit. they tried hard not to lose, so they put it more efforts. they have this energy to drive them.

As I always say ''Human are a complicated creature". There are always a lot conflict, disagreement, misunderstanding and so on. At times, you tried hard to tell them please don't do that way,hope they can understand at least a bit, it is for a better of us. But do they really hear u? that's also why people always say" If something u can't change, then u have to change yourself to adapt it."

what if you don't like one of your friend's attitude, would u tell him? like " Hey, u know what, I dun like you keep insulting me by saying "sohai", "noob yau". For me, if u saying this to your friend, I'll just think that u are not respecting them as a friend. what worse is that you kept saying it. u might not meant it. but u're saying wrong thing in a right situation..

what I would like to say is" please treat your friends like how they treat u." seriously, be aware of your words. I don't like to say the words "Sohai" and "noob yau" or "noob dau se" or any other word which could convey a negative messages, ask yourself did i say sohai to u? i mean in the serious way. did i say "noob yau, like this also dunno." and this is indeed insulting and it is not sound like kidding...and that's why I hope u treat me like how i treat u.


For what? to talking with someone who keep insulting u? at the end of the day, u got hurt more than joys.

and when i say human are complicated creature is not just what i mentioned above...communication is the only way to solve this...but the problem is that do they take your words seriously and store in their head?

RESPECT EACH OTHER IS WHAT I WANNA SAY, NO MATTER WHO U ARE, TREAT YOUR MOM AND DAD, FRIENDS, STRANGERS AND COLLEAGUES WITH RESPECT.

and i always think this, even u are elder or older, u do need to respect young people.

Be Yourself mean-

Be yourself mean-

1.)Accept who u are, no matter good or bad. ( Be patient about your weaknesses, empower your strengths.)

2.) To do what u like to do, not others telling you that's what u suppose to do. ( Follow your convictions.)

3.)Don't give a damn of what they said about you. (especially saying something that against your thoughts, opinions, and attitudes...while there's nothing right or wrong about that. If things that are very subjective to every individual.)

4.)Don't be afraid of expressing your thoughts and opinions. (Believe what you believed.)

5.)...will be continue

herheartstaysgolden:

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s - Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2010.
7. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
8. Sleep for 7 hours.
9. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

1. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
3. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

1. Call your family often.
2. Each day give something good to others.
3. Forgive everyone for everything.
4. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
5. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
6. What other people think of you is none of your business.
7. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

1. Do the right thing!
2. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
3. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
4. The best is yet to come.
5. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

(via gizzyandnacho)

Fooooooooodss

Okay, I'm freaking hungry right now... was thinking all kind of foods..pizza! Ikea's meatballs, fries!!! oh sushi, been a freaking long time no eat sushi! i guess since this year, i haven eat sushi!

anyways, now i'm going to show you some Ikea must eat foods, these few foods i personally tried before,not much but 2 , it is damn tasty. Seriously, Ikea really make u come back again for their foods!

Okay, first stuff...of course meatballs!! I like the fries! is thick! and the strawberry jam!

next, this so calls daim cake! i only ate once, and im addicted! is tasty!

NICE watch babe!

this is freaking nice, i fall in love!

Nato straps

Just the strap... It perfectly match with the watches here...NICE!

在梅邊 by Leehom

Here are the rap part only... like it! meaningful.

在梅邊不知愛何時出現　在現實生活還是只能在夢裡面
牡丹亭描述的浪漫不可思議　尤其是對我們這種新新人類

尤其是對我們　生活太忙亂　沒有時間吃飯　上網到眼睛酸
科技發逹好有效率　而生活的節奏比明朝的快速一萬倍
怎樣才能夠滿足
小朋友哪有時間　坐在那裡看牡丹亭　花十九個小時唱到
所有觀眾老了
坐火車　地鐵　飛機　高速公路　又在堵車
聰明的人知道時間就是錢要把握

失控之前　要喘一口氣　湯顯祖讓我向你學習
這麼夢幻　沒人比你浪漫　四百年的流傳　我只能說讚

我的世界一切越來越方便　但　奇怪還是沒有辦法找到一種愛
我不要跟你們賽跑　因為我知道　生命是個禮物　不希望這一輩子
沒有愛而馬不停蹄　好想掉進那故事裡　步奏慢點兒　氣氛神秘
柳夢梅的美夢裡　湯大師帶我們回去　充滿愛的牡丹亭

If u are reading this ( anyone of u, readers)

I was thinking how many people would know actually what they want in their life? especially the young generation. because they are the only group who have plenty of time ahead for future...does anyone know what they want in the future? and how and when they developed? why they are so clear that they know this is what they want in their future?

there are many people, including myself...we are numb

we sometimes know that we want change the life that we are heading now, we dislike who we are and what we are now, we want better future.

BUT, most of the time.....the day repeat itself everyday, and we do the same things everyday. wake up early, rush to work or school, then work or study, then back home, then sleep, then the next day, same things happen....continue for years sometimes....at time, you stop and think is it the life that i want? u started doubt at the same time, you dunno what u want...what the purpose of living?

seriously, there is no a standard way, saying that life should live like that...or u should be a billionaire then only your life are not wasted, or you should get a higher education or you should not play computer games...and more( those other things that social norm)...cause life is too short! if you are chasing more money, and devote your health and time, then so what? for what? after u became rich, u probably became old....and left little time to enjoy life....that does not make sense right?

most of the time, we are chasing what the "social norm" or many people think THAT is a things u need in ur life then u are not wasted ur life...example like MATERIAL THINGS, WORKS... i mean there are many people work so hard, for what? if u work to pass ur time...and get paid...and din not know how to use your money, u are stupid! u save more than u suppose to...for what? u cant bring it along to hell...

LIFE IS JUST LIKE THAT!!!

Every time I ask for school fees, I feel guilty to ask for it...cause it is really not cheap...a fucking one semester costed like RM6k++, depend on how many subject u took. one sub@Rm1600.....

every time I show the school fees invoice to my dad, I felt guilty, I felt like I am the liabilities for my parent, how i wish i could get a scholarship and settle myself!

I really cant ask for more, they had already given me the best for me. i know it's freaking not easy to raise a child until he got his degree...

And I'm so appreciated who I am, and the parent i have, the life they give...every things

no more complains, the only thing i can do is to get the best results, and take care them! give them the best when i have the money!

thanks you daddy and mummy..

I only got the feel to write blog during midnight when there was a lot of things in my mind! fcuk Help uni college, money-sucker. frankly speaking, i dun really enjoy the Help uni life here! i can list down all the bad sides of it.

1.) expensive school fees

2.) too far from my house

3.) need to get 2hrs earlier for early classes

4.)foods expensive

5.)no where to go, except library and lousy food court.

6.)have to pay parking fee@ per entry RM3, still cant find parking during open school periods.

7.)higher expenses for me, petrol, parking fees, makan. no extra money left..d.n.siang!

8.) early morning stuck in the traffic!

these are enough!

unlike Tarcollege,

1.) affordable school fees.

2.)foods are cheap

3.) near my house @15mins

4.)go jj, wangsa walk, wangsa maju makan! still cheap.

5.)had a bunch of friends to hang out.

6.)can go friend house seat seat.

7.)more facilities, can go for gym, badminton, swimming, all cheap!

8.)parking cheap@RM20 for the fucking whole year

9.) no worries for no parking

10.) resit fees cheaper than Help!

Okay that all i can say, no regret, just money problems....after all, we pay for brand, everyone pay for brand, reputation...if Tarc offers bachelor degree, im freaking sure i go for it!

lesson learned-branded can charge higher price! positioning yourself in the market, VALUE! i like the word VALUE...add-value.

hohoho! I cant sleep now, and was thinking to blog something! been so long no touch my blog.=.= and i miss it so much now. I dunno why. I want to write so many thing which stored in my heart...i dunno what the mood now... feel like need a soul mate to talk...miss those day talking with cousin, i like to talk to him because it is so direct, u dun need to hide anything, just talk it out...

and i feel like writing status in facebook is so insecure, what u write would not just be seen by ur friends but stalkers as well, i do believe many people are stalkers, just depend who they stalk..hahaha..sometimes because of what u write and causes unnecessary problems like friendship spoiled, and ruined your own image...i feel like i had matured in term of writing status in fb...i would think twice before i write...sometimes i just feel like should i really care? i feel like i should write what i like, i should not give too much shits to people dun like....i cant, i care some people what they say. because i believe people dun like u it has a reason. and u can be possible be liked by everyone, they would still people anti, dislike...

and one more thing about fb is that when someone, considered as a "friend" not that closed friend, and he or she added u, no choice but to accept it...and u automatically will behave urself in fb....just like ur parent or ur boss, ur colleagues added u in fb, like keeping an eye on u, u get what im saying?? what u write, what u liked in fb will be read by them! sucks!

I know one thing, I think more than any people..sucks, i hate it...FML!!!

how i hope that im that kind of person like

我行我素, i dun give shit to anyone who got me down, who push me down...fuck u for real!!!...

Converse Jack Purcell (grey)

Oh man, i was thinking this shoe since yesterday, i have the urge to get it right NOW....NOw now!!! I like the grey color!!

I just wanna say motherfucker!!!!!! I will come back stronger than ever!!!!!!!!!! Let's take it as a lesson....fuck up!o0o

How to NOT waste time on the internet

We’re all guilty of it. We waste our own time surfing the web looking at funny pictures and videos, or really nothing that interests us. It doesn’t hurt to do this once and awhile, but don’t let it become a habit. Here are some ways to prevent your internet use from becoming too wasteful.

Have a clear goal

For each site you visit, have a reason why you want to be there. Have a clear goal of what you would like to accomplish. Three well-known time wasters, Digg, YouTube, and Facebook, can easily turn productive when you have a goal planned. For Digg, may be you want to read one useful article or find one new website. Perhaps on Youtube you want to find a video on a topic that interests you, or maybe you want to make a new contact on Facebook. If you don’t have a clear goal before visiting a site, then avoid it. That is a positive sign of a time waster.

Don’t stray away

If you don’t want to spend too much time doing nothing and getting nowhere on the web, then you must prevent yourself from straying off and losing focus. If you’re watching a video don’t click on any of the related videos. If you watch one video, click on a related video, then that video will have 25 more related videos, if you click on another one, 25 more, and so on. These links will never end and consume even more of your valuable time. Focus on that one video or article now and come back to the related videos or links some other time.

Skip the IMs

Don’t sign into an instant message service if you really don’t have anything to say. Many people sign in just to see what’s going on. Similar to websites, if you want to save time, have a clear goal of what you want to accomplish. Don’t just strike up a pointless conversation because you could be wasting someone else’s time as well.

Time yourself

This might be the oldest trick in the book. Get yourself an egg timer and set it so that every time you go to a site you can give yourself about 5 to 10 minutes. You’ll stay on track and be kept motivated by hearing the ticking of the timer.

Take a day off

Just step away from the internet for a day. A full twenty-four hours. It’s simple but difficult for most. When your twenty-four hours is up and you’re back online, you’ll be much more ambitious to get a lot done.

Avoid arguments

The internet has brought people together and has given individuals the opportunity to express their true views. Many times people can be very tough or downright nasty on forums and social media sites. Take other people’s opinions into account and move on. Don’t waste your time with an argument. A disagreement online usually takes longer because of the time in between a rebuttal post. This is very true for forums.

Don’t stress the small things

On the internet we try to be as perfect as possible because we feel “everyone” is watching. People spend hours trying to get their social profiles just right and evenly rank their friends. Don’t worry about it. You’re never going to be perfect, no one will.

Recognize waste

There’s going to be days when you feel like wasting time surfing the web and then you’ll have other days when you don’t feel like it’s a waste at all. There’s plenty of ways you can turn your wasteful surfing into something productive. Recognize your waste and be turn it around.

5% Tax, 10% Service Charge, 100% Stupidity

KFC and McDonald

As informed by my friend (a hotelier), the 10% service charge is only imposed if you dine-in at the outlet. If you do take-away, you won't be charge the 10%. His reasoning is that, when you dine-in the staffs will have to serve you the food, entertain whenever you call to ask for chilli sauce/tomato sauce/pepper/tissue/whatnot. Whereas when you do take-away, they just prepare your food and off you go.

Got once at secret recipe, the service so poor that my friend complain to the manager. Some more got the service charge, my friend taruh the manager, ask him better educate your staff. No service at all, if I educate your staff you better pay me some service charge as well. Luckly he apologize.
I just wondering how they categorize to charge 5% or 10% or even 15%. It is up to their management or there is any guideline. If not it is not fair to consumer.


i get super irritated with the service charge more than the government tax.
For example, OLD TOWN. We have to write everything we want down. Those workers only come and collect the bill. When we want to pay, some will even ask us to walk over to the counter to pay ourselves. Get my point? Why do they impose a 10% service charge when they did not even serve us?