As I always say ''Human are a complicated creature". There are always a lot conflict, disagreement, misunderstanding and so on. At times, you tried hard to tell them please don't do that way,hope they can understand at least a bit, it is for a better of us. But do they really hear u? that's also why people always say" If something u can't change, then u have to change yourself to adapt it."

what if you don't like one of your friend's attitude, would u tell him? like " Hey, u know what, I dun like you keep insulting me by saying "sohai", "noob yau". For me, if u saying this to your friend, I'll just think that u are not respecting them as a friend. what worse is that you kept saying it. u might not meant it. but u're saying wrong thing in a right situation..

what I would like to say is" please treat your friends like how they treat u." seriously, be aware of your words. I don't like to say the words "Sohai" and "noob yau" or "noob dau se" or any other word which could convey a negative messages, ask yourself did i say sohai to u? i mean in the serious way. did i say "noob yau, like this also dunno." and this is indeed insulting and it is not sound like kidding...and that's why I hope u treat me like how i treat u.


For what? to talking with someone who keep insulting u? at the end of the day, u got hurt more than joys.

and when i say human are complicated creature is not just what i mentioned above...communication is the only way to solve this...but the problem is that do they take your words seriously and store in their head?

RESPECT EACH OTHER IS WHAT I WANNA SAY, NO MATTER WHO U ARE, TREAT YOUR MOM AND DAD, FRIENDS, STRANGERS AND COLLEAGUES WITH RESPECT.

and i always think this, even u are elder or older, u do need to respect young people.

Be Yourself mean-

Be yourself mean-

1.)Accept who u are, no matter good or bad. ( Be patient about your weaknesses, empower your strengths.)

2.) To do what u like to do, not others telling you that's what u suppose to do. ( Follow your convictions.)

3.)Don't give a damn of what they said about you. (especially saying something that against your thoughts, opinions, and attitudes...while there's nothing right or wrong about that. If things that are very subjective to every individual.)

4.)Don't be afraid of expressing your thoughts and opinions. (Believe what you believed.)

5.)...will be continue

herheartstaysgolden:

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s - Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2010.
7. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
8. Sleep for 7 hours.
9. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

1. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
3. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

1. Call your family often.
2. Each day give something good to others.
3. Forgive everyone for everything.
4. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
5. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
6. What other people think of you is none of your business.
7. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

1. Do the right thing!
2. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
3. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
4. The best is yet to come.
5. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

(via gizzyandnacho)

Fooooooooodss

Okay, I'm freaking hungry right now... was thinking all kind of foods..pizza! Ikea's meatballs, fries!!! oh sushi, been a freaking long time no eat sushi! i guess since this year, i haven eat sushi!

anyways, now i'm going to show you some Ikea must eat foods, these few foods i personally tried before,not much but 2 , it is damn tasty. Seriously, Ikea really make u come back again for their foods!

Okay, first stuff...of course meatballs!! I like the fries! is thick! and the strawberry jam!

next, this so calls daim cake! i only ate once, and im addicted! is tasty!

NICE watch babe!

this is freaking nice, i fall in love!

Nato straps

Just the strap... It perfectly match with the watches here...NICE!

在梅邊 by Leehom

Here are the rap part only... like it! meaningful.

在梅邊不知愛何時出現　在現實生活還是只能在夢裡面
牡丹亭描述的浪漫不可思議　尤其是對我們這種新新人類

尤其是對我們　生活太忙亂　沒有時間吃飯　上網到眼睛酸
科技發逹好有效率　而生活的節奏比明朝的快速一萬倍
怎樣才能夠滿足
小朋友哪有時間　坐在那裡看牡丹亭　花十九個小時唱到
所有觀眾老了
坐火車　地鐵　飛機　高速公路　又在堵車
聰明的人知道時間就是錢要把握

失控之前　要喘一口氣　湯顯祖讓我向你學習
這麼夢幻　沒人比你浪漫　四百年的流傳　我只能說讚

我的世界一切越來越方便　但　奇怪還是沒有辦法找到一種愛
我不要跟你們賽跑　因為我知道　生命是個禮物　不希望這一輩子
沒有愛而馬不停蹄　好想掉進那故事裡　步奏慢點兒　氣氛神秘
柳夢梅的美夢裡　湯大師帶我們回去　充滿愛的牡丹亭