Steve Jobs 1955-2011

people would only pay attention to what you have said only when you are a very successful person.

Steve Jobs's 3 stories

"你們的時間有限，所以不要浪費時間活在別人的生活裡。

不要被教條所侷限-- 盲從教條就是活在別人思考結果裡。

不要讓別人的意見淹沒了你內在的心聲。

最重要的，擁有追隨自己內心與直覺的勇氣，

你的內心與直覺多少已經知道你真正想要成為什麼樣的人."

Ego

High Ego do has its good, well, better look at this perspective...if a person has high ego, he don't want to lose out in a bunch. he tends to show his best, always the strongest person in the eye of people. will always aware of how he been perceived by their friend. So he always tried to stand on the peak. he tends to has this attitude "prove em' they're wrong". they believe themselve, when u strongly believed yourself, sometimes, u have those crazy ideas that people think u are psycho, too naive,daydreaming. they think u can't make it, so show them, they are wrong. prove to them, they're the person who are too naive to think that you cant make it. one of my favorite mentor, Ernie Chan once said, the fine line between success and failure, he said when u succeed, people say you intelligent, when u failed, people say u idiot. Then he took Airasia's CEO Tony Fernandes for example, when fernandes first buying Airasia, at that time was not called Airasia, anyway, Fernandes mortgaged his home and used his saving to acquire the company, at that time, friends, family members think that he is crazy, he will not going make it, he cant go far. but what's happen now? people started saying he is intelligent,blah bla bla...you see? when people say u cant make it, and laughing at u thinking that u are too naive to think big... instead of listening to him, why dun prove them they are wrong? and u can make it happen. that's why u need to listen to yourself first, believe yourself.

anyway, I'm not trying to say u need to be so ego then to become a successful person. what i want to say is that people who has high ego, they tend to has the power, they tend to has the winning spirit. they tried hard not to lose, so they put it more efforts. they have this energy to drive them.

As I always say ''Human are a complicated creature". There are always a lot conflict, disagreement, misunderstanding and so on. At times, you tried hard to tell them please don't do that way,hope they can understand at least a bit, it is for a better of us. But do they really hear u? that's also why people always say" If something u can't change, then u have to change yourself to adapt it."

what if you don't like one of your friend's attitude, would u tell him? like " Hey, u know what, I dun like you keep insulting me by saying "sohai", "noob yau". For me, if u saying this to your friend, I'll just think that u are not respecting them as a friend. what worse is that you kept saying it. u might not meant it. but u're saying wrong thing in a right situation..

what I would like to say is" please treat your friends like how they treat u." seriously, be aware of your words. I don't like to say the words "Sohai" and "noob yau" or "noob dau se" or any other word which could convey a negative messages, ask yourself did i say sohai to u? i mean in the serious way. did i say "noob yau, like this also dunno." and this is indeed insulting and it is not sound like kidding...and that's why I hope u treat me like how i treat u.


For what? to talking with someone who keep insulting u? at the end of the day, u got hurt more than joys.

and when i say human are complicated creature is not just what i mentioned above...communication is the only way to solve this...but the problem is that do they take your words seriously and store in their head?

RESPECT EACH OTHER IS WHAT I WANNA SAY, NO MATTER WHO U ARE, TREAT YOUR MOM AND DAD, FRIENDS, STRANGERS AND COLLEAGUES WITH RESPECT.

and i always think this, even u are elder or older, u do need to respect young people.

Be Yourself mean-

Be yourself mean-

1.)Accept who u are, no matter good or bad. ( Be patient about your weaknesses, empower your strengths.)

2.) To do what u like to do, not others telling you that's what u suppose to do. ( Follow your convictions.)

3.)Don't give a damn of what they said about you. (especially saying something that against your thoughts, opinions, and attitudes...while there's nothing right or wrong about that. If things that are very subjective to every individual.)

4.)Don't be afraid of expressing your thoughts and opinions. (Believe what you believed.)

5.)...will be continue

herheartstaysgolden:

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s - Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2010.
7. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
8. Sleep for 7 hours.
9. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

1. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
3. Don’t over do. Keep your limits.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
6. Dream more while you are awake.
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more.
14. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

1. Call your family often.
2. Each day give something good to others.
3. Forgive everyone for everything.
4. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
5. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
6. What other people think of you is none of your business.
7. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

1. Do the right thing!
2. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
3. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
4. The best is yet to come.
5. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

(via gizzyandnacho)

Fooooooooodss

Okay, I'm freaking hungry right now... was thinking all kind of foods..pizza! Ikea's meatballs, fries!!! oh sushi, been a freaking long time no eat sushi! i guess since this year, i haven eat sushi!

anyways, now i'm going to show you some Ikea must eat foods, these few foods i personally tried before,not much but 2 , it is damn tasty. Seriously, Ikea really make u come back again for their foods!

Okay, first stuff...of course meatballs!! I like the fries! is thick! and the strawberry jam!

next, this so calls daim cake! i only ate once, and im addicted! is tasty!