Ego

High Ego do has its good, well, better look at this perspective...if a person has high ego, he don't want to lose out in a bunch. he tends to show his best, always the strongest person in the eye of people. will always aware of how he been perceived by their friend. So he always tried to stand on the peak. he tends to has this attitude "prove em' they're wrong". they believe themselve, when u strongly believed yourself, sometimes, u have those crazy ideas that people think u are psycho, too naive,daydreaming. they think u can't make it, so show them, they are wrong. prove to them, they're the person who are too naive to think that you cant make it. one of my favorite mentor, Ernie Chan once said, the fine line between success and failure, he said when u succeed, people say you intelligent, when u failed, people say u idiot. Then he took Airasia's CEO Tony Fernandes for example, when fernandes first buying Airasia, at that time was not called Airasia, anyway, Fernandes mortgaged his home and used his saving to acquire the company, at that time, friends, family members think that he is crazy, he will not going make it, he cant go far. but what's happen now? people started saying he is intelligent,blah bla bla...you see? when people say u cant make it, and laughing at u thinking that u are too naive to think big... instead of listening to him, why dun prove them they are wrong? and u can make it happen. that's why u need to listen to yourself first, believe yourself.

anyway, I'm not trying to say u need to be so ego then to become a successful person. what i want to say is that people who has high ego, they tend to has the power, they tend to has the winning spirit. they tried hard not to lose, so they put it more efforts. they have this energy to drive them.